"I need advice"

I know for a fact that i’m not the only person who feels this way. In all honesty, i’m getting a little fed up about it. Do you know when people only go to your when they need something? I know, i say to people many times that “i’ll try to always be here for you” but that doesn’t mean you can take advantage of me and just have me there for advice. I’m not Dr. Phil. Don’t be so dependent on me. I know that you are capable of handling your own problems. You got yourself in it? You get yourself out of it. It’s not a hard thing unless you make it hard. Whatever you do, just be patient with yourself and others. Patience is a virtue, my friend. So, next time you have a boyfriend/girlfriend , ‘i have a crush on him/her”, what do i do, what happens next? type of situation, Ask yourself for advice before you ask anyone else. I can bet that what i’ll say is the same thing your gut has been trying to tell you. I understand, you need help, you want advice, you need some reassurance or closure but you can do that yourself. Confrontation with your inner self or the person themselves isn’t the easiest thing (i would know) but it’s sometimes the only choice you have. I’m a little fed up with all the advice wishes, i don’t run the Maury show. “I need advice.” Well, guess what? I do to, but i’m capable of handling it on my own. Dude, Hop off, i got my own problems and i really just don’t want to deal with yours.